Letter to Attorney Arabasz 11/26/12

Law Office of Raymond Arabasz

884 South Street

Bridgewater, Ma 02324

508-697-3800

Fax – 508-697-3811

Dear Attorney Arabasz,                                                                                   November 26, 2012

            RE: Bonetzky-Joseph v Joseph

            Docket No: PL06 D0566-DV1

I write in response to your letter dated November 13, 2012 (received on November 20, 2012).  Please note: the previous letter received was dated November 1, 2012 (received November 6, 2012) concerning the unavailability of the children on October 31, 2012 for their 7pm call.

Firstly, I respectfully request you cease and desist in your attempts to “gaslight” me. Your attempts to do so not only cause harm to me, but may have negative lasting effects on my children.

You know my number, Attorney Arabasz, as it is the same number your client placed the call block on.   I do NOT block my number.  Your client has and was verified by the phone company.  As an attorney, Attorney Arabasz, you knew or should have known, Mr. Joseph and his wife have not complied with the calls as you agreed as Mr. Joseph’s acting attorney.  

If you recall, your client testified in court under oath that if he did not feel like complying with court order he was not going to do so.  Based on your client’s actions, there appears to be an obstruction of justice here. 

I have repeatedly asked for your cooperation to resend an unblocked, uncensored, and unrestricted phone number that allows my children access so they can speak to their mother, which you refuse to do. You again have failed your duty to fulfill my request.  Why? The request is simple.  

Please note that I have been advised to call the police regarding my concerns.  I have also been informed of the concerns regarding the welfare of the children that may warrant a well check and I have been informed of my rights to do so.  I hope you advise your client to cooperate with the calls as the police department is well aware of the situation.

Despite your repeated lack of cooperation, the previous numbers you provided in September did work on Wednesday, November 21st.  Whatever call block your client placed was lifted and I finally and happily spoke with my three daughters, Alexandria, Shannon and Kelly.  Thank you for convincing your client to cooperate with the calls. It was so wonderful to hear their voices and tell me about their school and friends.  Clearly based on the tone, the children were quite happy to speak with me and nice to hear how they miss their mother, grandfather and friends and how much my daughters love me too.

I expect to be able to speak with my children again at the specified time you state in your letter Wednesday, November 31, 2012 at 7pm, and anticipate your client will finally cooperate with the calls as it is what is right and best for the children.

Regards,

Laura Bonetzky-Joseph

(address omitted)

Letter to Attorney Arabasz 11/16/12

Law Office of Raymond Arabasz

884 South Street

Bridgewater, Ma 02324

508-697-3800

Fax – 508-697-3811

Dear Attorney Arabasz,                                                                                   November 16, 2012

            RE: Bonetzky-Joseph v Joseph

            Docket No: PL06 D0566-DV1

I am writing to notify you that I attempted to call my children again last week per my letter I sent you dated 11/8/12 as well as Wednesday night with no success once again.

I have also yet to receive any response to my repeated requests for a valid unblocked uncensored unrestricted phone line to call my children as agreed. You have yet to send me a phone number that has not placed a voluntary call block/restriction on my phone number despite my repeated requests.

I implore you to encourage your client, Mr. Joseph and his wife to stop emotionally abusing my children by denying them communication with their mother.   These actions by your client, Mr. Joseph and his wife, are not only cruel, but unusually harmful to the children.  I would hope you can convince your client and his wife to stop abusing my children and I implore you, Attorney Arabasz, to stop impeding justice.

I expect an ethical prompt reply to my repeated requests for solutions to this matter regarding the calls.  I hope you and your client, Attorney Arabasz, decide to finally allow the children to finally begin to repair and rebuild their relationship with their mother as ordered by the court and as what would be right thing to do by any fit loving parent who truly cared about the children and their relationship with their mother. 

My children love and miss their mother as they have repeatedly expressed despite you and your client’s attempts to tear that mother daughter bond. 

Please send me a number to call my children as requested no later than Tuesday, November 20^th so I may plan accordingly.

Thank you,

Laura Bonetzky-Joseph

Letter to Attorney Arabasz Notifying Request for Court Tapes 11/2/12

Law Office of Raymond Arabasz

884 South Street

Bridgewater, Ma 02324

508-697-3800

Fax – 508-697-3811

Dear Attorney Arabasz,                                                                                  November 2, 2012

            RE: Bonetzky-Joseph v Joseph

            Docket No: PL06 D0566-DV1

I am notifying you per Rule 201 that I have requested copies of the tapes from the court on November 1, 2012 for the following dates:

·         9/7/07

·         10/4/11

·         10/6/11

·         10/7/11

·         11/15/11

·         12/1/11

·         3/16/12

Thank you.

Laura Bonetzky-Joseph

Letter to Attorney Arabasz 11/2/12

Law Office of Raymond Arabasz

884 South Street

Bridgewater, Ma 02324

508-697-3800

Fax – 508-697-3811

Dear Attorney Arabasz,                                                                                  November 2, 2012

            RE: Bonetzky-Joseph v Joseph

            Docket No: PL06 D0566-DV1

I faxed you a letter on Wednesday, October 31^st  at approximately 9:30am regarding my repeated ongoing problems with calling my children with the hopes you would assist in resolving the problems at hand. 

I still am not able to speak with my children as scheduled on Wednesdays at 7pm.  I, once again, attempted to call my children at 7pm last night. I was happily anticipating full cooperation so the children can finally begin to rebuild their relationship with their mother. 

However, once again, my call was blocked from both numbers supplied by your office which makes it impossible to even leave a message for my children so they know I called. Please  explain, as Mr. Joseph’s attorney, why your client and his wife would give a number to call the children and block it. I cannot understand why these drastic actions have occurred and I am puzzled and deeply concerned for my children’s welfare.

I am perplexed by the lack of communication in this manner and the long term mental health consequences on the children going this long with no contact with their mother despite my repeated attempts. I also have not received any correspondence from your office since your letter noting any problems.

As a result, I would like an alternative number to call my children that will be unhampered and unblocked. I am frustrated at why your client and his wife continue to conduct themselves in this manner and very disheartened by their acts as this must be very emotionally difficult for the children.  All I want to do is to be able to speak to my children.  If there is a problem with my calls being blocked by your client, then please have the children call me at 7pm on Wednesdays. I will ensure I will be available to receive these calls with an acknowledgement by you in writing as to this solution.  I am trying my best to find solutions to this problem and have just offered you two alternatives to resolve these issues in an amicable way that I outlined. I implore you to encourage your client to comply with the 7pm Wednesday calls.

In spirit of full cooperation and best interest of the children, I would like to try again to call my children this evening at 7pm since my call on Wednesday was blocked by Mr. Joseph and his wife. 

Finally, as previously stated, I do not have my own fax line. As a result, you nor anyone connected to you or this case, do NOT have permission to communicate in any format through this fax number. Any attempt to do so, will be construed as harassment. If I can use an alternate fax so mutual correspondence can occur, I will let you know. I apologize for this obstacle. 

Once again, I hope with your assistance in this matter, these challenges can be finally resolved once and for all.  After all, the children are what are important.  I pray with your assistance to rectifying this matter, I am able to finally connect with my children this evening since I have been unable to do so for some time now.  Thank you for your anticipated help in this matter.

With much gratitude,

Laura Bonetzky-Joseph

(address omitted)

Letter to Attorney Arabasz 10/31/12

Law Office of Raymond Arabasz

884  South Street

Bridgewater, Ma 02324

508-697-3800

Fax – 508-697-3811

Dear Attorney Arabasz,                                                                                   October 31, 2012

            RE: Bonetzky-Joseph v Joseph

            Docket No: PL06 D0566-DV1

I am writing to you for a couple reasons regarding the children. 

First, your client, Mr. Marlon Joseph,  and his wife, Mrs. Andrea Joseph  have repeatedly failed to make the children available to receive my call on Wednesdays at 7pm with the phone numbers supplied to me by your office and assured that your client would make the children available for the calls. I have called every week at the allotted time per court order but unfortunately, your client has failed to comply 100% of the time.  There is either no answer, my calls are blocked, or the children are not made available to receive my call.  I have tried my best in my attempts to communicate with my children and made every effort to cooperate with you and the court. I do not know if the children are being denied access to these calls, but I am very frustrated because every time I call every Wednesday, there is no response.

It is very disheartening at the constant and repeated lack of cooperation from your client, the children’s father, Mr. Joseph. I am concerned about the mental health and wellbeing of my children, Kelly, Shannon and Alexandria.   I have no idea what the children are being told by their father or stepmother or what they must feel when they do not hear from me, not by lack of trying on my part. I do not know if my calls are being withheld from them. I do not want my children to think I do not love or care about them and that I do not call them despite my attempts. I need some assurance the children are at least being told I called. I would like to call them to tell them I love them and miss them very much. 

AND now since, Wednesday, October 10^th, your client has blocked my number.   I also attempted to call my daughter on Oct 26^th for her 12^th Birthday with great hopes and expectation.  How disappointing as my daughter, Shannon, must feel I did not care or did not want to call her on her birthday. She must be so disappointed and I have no idea if Shannon or her sister have received my calls or if they are receiving my messages.  

 Your client also refused to let the maternal relatives including the children’s uncle and aunt contact the children despite the fact they came from London to visit and were denied ALL access to the children.

May be you can explain to me when I call at the appropriate time, I am unable to speak to my children 100% of the time. 

Secondly, I am requesting a copy of ALL the tape recordings made by your client during recent conversations with the children. Please provide a certification (signed under the pains and penalties of perjury) that the tape recording produced are all those in your client’s possession and are complete, true and accurate unedited copies of the tape recordings. 

Please send a number where the children will be made available to receive my weekly calls unhampered by your client. That means when I call, I anticipate the children to answer to take my call.

Finally, I am faxing this from my place of employment. Please do NOT correspond with me at my place of employment as you nor your client or anyone associate with you or him do not have permission to do so. Any attempt to do so, will construed as harassment and violation of my rights. 

I anticipate full cooperation from you and your client for the best interests of the children not by words but actions by making the children available for this evenings call at 7pm. 

My children love and miss their mother as they have repeatedly expressed during our conversations despite you and your client’s attempts to tear that mother daughter bond into oblivion.  By me not being to reach my children when I call and knowing my own children, I am concerned these acts may reflect poorly on their emotional development and attachment with me.

I would like your assurance that the children will be made available to speak to me as your previous latter has stated and if for any reason they are not, I would like some assurance from you a common courtesy of a proper notification in advance if the children will not be made available due to extenuating circumstances. Otherwise, I anticipate a prompt ethical reply and full cooperation in the spirit of good intentions and best interests for the children.

Thank you,

Laura Bonetzky-Joseph

(address omitted)